We know it’s not fun to think about, but the reality of life is that it isn’t going to last forever. We’re talking about estate planning — something that’s important for everyone. The following six steps will help ensure that you have your legal ducks in a row, making it easy for your loved ones to carry out your wishes.
Virtually everyone postpones writing a will — maybe we don’t want such a tangible reminder of mortality, perhaps we view the process as relinquishing the ownership of our property, or maybe we think we have nothing of value. Whatever the excuse, we need to realize that having a will actually prevents what is feared most; that you will have no control over what happens to your hard-earned assets.
Asset disposition through a will:
You decide who gets your house, your car, your pets and your other assets, not the state. If you pass away without a will (“intestate”), by operation of law, the state where you live will make these decisions.
Naming a guardian for your minor children:
Ensuring that your children are well cared for in the event of your death can be accomplished through a legal guardianship provision, which will allow you to:
Naming an executor or executors of your will:
The executor of your estate is commissioned with tasks such as determining debts and other claims against the estate, managing the estate assets, determining and paying all taxes, distributing the estate to beneficiaries, and complying with the state reporting requirements in a timely manner. If you know someone with a law degree or an accounting background, they may be a good choice to serve in the role; however, many people choose their closest relatives. Just be sure to check your state laws to determine any residency requirements for persons serving as executors as many states require this person to be a resident of the will probating state.
Update your will every three years, especially if you:
Still worried about deciding how your assets will be distributed? It’s important to note that your will has no effect during your lifetime, and that you can change it (or revoke it) whenever you want.
A living will addresses your medical affairs, giving you an opportunity to expressly state the kind of medical care you wish to receive, and at what point you no longer wish to receive any care. This document is important to have in place in the event that you become incapacitated or are not able to speak for yourself. Issues that should be covered include: resuscitation, mechanical ventilation, tube feeding, dialysis, antibiotics or antiviral medications, comfort care (palliative care), and organ and tissue donations. Activation of a living will usually requires a certification by your doctor and another doctor that you are either suffering from a terminal illness or permanently unconscious before it becomes effective.
There are several different types of power of attorney documents, in which you give an “attorney-in-fact” or “agent” the legal authority to make decisions.
All power of attorneys can be revoked at any time and become void at the time of death at which time your will becomes the controlling document. Lastly, the laws for creating a power of attorney vary from state to state and may or may not require a notary public.
Naming a beneficiary for bank accounts and retirement plans makes the account automatically “payable on death” or “transferred on death” to your beneficiary and allows the funds to skip the probate process (that long, arduous process your will must go through).
Beneficiary designations on life insurance policies, annuities, retirement plans, payable-on-death accounts, and other assets will generally override any conflicting provisions in a will or trust. Thus, it’s essential to make sure all forms are checked and updated regularly – ideally annually.
Do you have a special pile of unorganized papers that you consider important but, like me, store carelessly under your bed or in your closet? If so, you know how challenging it can be to find important legal documents during a time of peace, let alone moments of dire need. I strongly suggest compiling all important paperwork (wills, trusts, POAs, etc.) and passwords in one location. This could be as simple as setting up an expandable file, or storing everything in one desk drawer, or it can be as secure as putting them in a bank safe deposit box. If you choose to put your papers in a bank safe deposit box, you should also keep copies in a file at home to ensure more accessibility. Either way, be sure to review your file each year to see if there is anything new that needs to be added.
Do you wish for your daughter to have the wooden rocking chair in your bedroom? Want your son to make medical decisions when you are unable to do so? If you have gotten this far in our tips, you most likely know what you want, but have you communicated your desires, or jotted them down? Our final suggestion is to explain your wishes to important friends and family, especially if they might have a role to play, and let them know where you keep your important documents.
We understand this type of planning involves difficult decisions. While we hope you find these tips useful, they’re not legal advice, so if you need further guidance we encourage you to consult an attorney in your state or utilize LegalShield Services.
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by Lauren Patrizio, Esq.
CVC Senior Patient Advocate
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